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A THOUSAND MARBLES
The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday
mornings. Perhaps it's the quiet solitude that
comes with being the first to rise, or maybe
it's the unbounded joy of not having to be at work.
Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday
morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the
kitchen with a steaming cup of coffee in one
hand and the morning paper in the other. What
began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one
of those lessons that life seems to hand you from
time to time. Let me tell you about it.
I turned the volume up on my radio in order to
listen to a Saturday morning talk show. I
heard an older sounding chap with a golden voice. You
know the kind ~ he sounded like he should be in the
broadcasting business himself. He was
talking about "a thousand marbles" to someone
named "Tom".
I was intrigued and sat down to listen to what
he had to say. "Well, Tom, it sure sounds like
you're busy with your job. I'm sure they pay
you well but it's a shame you have to be away from
home and your family so much. Hard to believe
a young fellow should have to work sixty or
seventy hours a week to make ends meet. Too bad you
missed your daughter's dance recital."
He continued, "Let me tell you something Tom,
something that has helped me keep a good
perspective on my own priorities."
And that's when he began to explain his theory
of a "thousand marbles."
"You see, I sat down one day and did a little
arithmetic. The average person lives about
seventy-five years. I know - some live more and
some live less, but on average, folks live
about seventy-five years."
"Now then, I multiplied 75 times
52 weeks and I came up with 3900, which is the number
of Saturdays that the average person has in their
entire lifetime. Now stick with me Tom, I'm
getting to the important part. It took me until I was
fifty-five years old to think about all this in any detail",
he went on, "and by that time I had lived through over
twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to
thinking that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had
about a thousand of them left to enjoy."
"So I went to a toy store and bought every
single marble they had. I ended up having to visit
three toy stores to round-up 1000 marbles. I took
them home and put them inside of a large, clear
plastic container right here in my workshop
next to the radio. Every Saturday since then, I
have taken one marble out and thrown it away."
"I found that by watching the marbles
diminish, I focused more on the really important things in
life. There is nothing like really watching your time
here on this earth run out to help get your
priorities straight."
"Now let me tell you one last thing before I
sign off with you and take my lovely wife out
for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble out
of the container. So, I figure if I make it until
next Saturday then I have been given a little
extra time. And the one thing we can all use
and we all want is a little more time."
"It was nice to talk to you Tom, I hope you
spend more time with your loved ones, and I hope to
meet you again someday. Have a good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop when he
finished. Even the show's moderator didn't have
anything to say for a few moments. I guess he
gave us all a lot to think about. I had
planned to do some work that morning, then go to the
gym. Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife
up with a kiss. "C'mon honey, I'm taking you
and the kids to breakfast."
"What brought this on?" she asked with a
smile.
"Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long
time since we spent a Saturday together with the
kids. Hey, can we stop at a toy store while we're
out? I need to buy some marbles."
YOU HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND
AND MAY ALL YOUR SATURDAYS BE SPECIAL!
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